Parenting

Practical Praise, Motivation, and Self-Control

     Many of us would shout “Eureka!” if we found a magic key that would unlock ways to motivate our children with Asperger Syndrome or similar autism spectrum disorders (ASDs).

The Asperger Syndrome Dad Test

     Your son or daughter has Asperger Syndrome.  How are you, as a dad, dealing with it?

     Here’s a test to help you analyze how your approach is working.

Love and Criticism

     Does your child know you believe in him, even when you’re correcting him?  Without meaning to, many of us give our children with Asperger Syndrome reason to question their worth in our eyes. 

Asperger Syndrome: Alone By Choice?

     Does your child with Asperger Syndrome really want to be alone?

     I have Asperger Syndrome, and I enjoyed being alone when I was little, mostly when I was in my own world reading.  But I also craved company and wanted to be with people. 

Realistic Gift Giving for the Holidays

     Are your family holidays the joyous celebrations you see in greeting cards, or stressful sessions that fray nerves?  For many families dealing with Asperger Syndrome or autism, they’re a bit of both.

Your Child's Safety Line

     There’s a great Gary Larson Far Side cartoon about optimists and pessimists that shows four people, each separately looking at a glass with some water in it.

Favorite Things

What’s your favorite thing?  The thing you look forward to.  The thing that gives you a rush just to think about it. 

Interesting discovery: It can be just as big a rush to help your child find and do his favorite thing. 

Fathers of Girls

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   Warning: Fathers of girls trying to understand current girl culture are likely to experience disorientation, consternation, and incredulity.  Girl culture has traditionally been a mystery to many dads.  However, accelerating social pressure for girls to see and present themselves as “sexy” at younger ages is adding layers of complication.  

Vanquishing Victimhood

  Bullying, being embarrassed in front of a class, and similar incidents can leave lasting impressions on young minds.

Mother's Day Writing Assignment

   Every mom has a story to tell.  Will yours get told?